With Valentine’s Day around the corner, why not spend some time focusing on why you love that special person in your life.  You know they have their faults, and those qualities that just drive you crazy, but how about all their positive traits?  Is it a special smile, a twinkle in their eye, the way they are there for you in unexpected ways?

Give some thought to what brought you together in the first place.  If you look closely, those initial qualities are no doubt still there!  Focusing on the positive will help your relationship grow and be healthier.  Make a mental list  of what makes them special and why you appreciate them. Write the list down if you have a chance.  And if you get inspired, maybe on this Valentine’s Day you can give your special someone this “Appreciation List.”  Think about it.  Wouldn’t you love a note telling you how fabulous you are?   It is sure to go over well and be a gift that lasts much longer than chocolates or cologne.  Whatever you do, remember to focus on the positive and have yourself a Happy Valentine’s Day!